I’ve been wanting a piano for quite some time. I took lessons for 5 years when I was a kid / teenager and, while I wasn’t any sort of musical genius I wasn’t bad either. I hadn’t really played in a long time and wanted to take it up again.
I was torn about this decision because I don’t like to spend money on things I consider luxuries and there is no way to get a “real” piano into my 3rd floor apartment.
I finally decided that I would get a digital piano but knew that it had to be as much like a real piano as possible; it had to have 88 keys and the keys had to be pressure sensitive.
I became more motivated to make this purchase when my daughter expressed interest in playing an instrument and even said to me, “I have all of these songs in my head that I need to get out.”
So I found the one that I wanted and kept an eye on the price while putting money aside here and there in a non-necessity fund. Finally, at the beginning of this year the price dropped to one that I thought was acceptable. My brother recommended that I wait until June to buy it and make it a birthday gift for my daughter, which I thought was an excellent idea even though I was going to have to wait a little longer for the piano. But, I had already waited years so a couple more months wasn’t going to make much of a difference.
Needless to say, the kid was thrilled. She’s a complete beginner but I’ve found she’s already much better at hearing something and finding the right notes to play than I am – I need to see the music. I’ve taught her middle C, the eight notes, and a very simple version of Twinkle Twinkle Little Star (I will not get tired of it … I will not get tired of it.) And, she has started making up little songs, which aren’t bad. She will play something and then say, “That is called The Moose and the Camel” or “The title of that one is Sushi Cat”. Too funny.
I’m going to teach her as much as I can but I’m not much of a teacher and lack patience. She also gets frustrated with me in a way that I don’t think she would with a “real” teacher. I’m hoping to get her started with lessons at the end of summer after our vacation.
Me
I have discovered that playing the piano is not like riding a bike. As my friend said, it’s like a foreign language – if you don’t use it, you lose it. Songs I used to know by heart are gone from my head and hand memory and even reading some of the music is tough going – especially for the left hand. For some pieces that I feel I can manage to poke through and play decently I’ve had to figure out what the notes are for the left hand and then write them on the sheet music until I know them again.
I will never be a great piano player. I probably won’t even be a mediocre one but I am really enjoying it even though realizing what I lost over the years was frustrating.
And I’ve found that there is a pull to play. I discovered last weekend, however, that you can lose time. On Sunday morning at 10:30am I sat down for a couple of minutes and the next thing I knew it was noon. It’s too bad I didn’t experience that when I was taking lessons and frequently (especially as I got older) would frantically play the morning of my lesson so my teacher wouldn’t be too annoyed with me.
Maybe I should report back in a year and let you know if I’ve improved at all – maybe even post a video ;-)
Is there anything like this that you used to do when you were younger, stopped doing and then started up again? How did it go? Did you pick it right back up again or did you realize, like I did, that it’s going to take a lot of work to get to where you used to be?
I guess I shouldn’t be surprised – what would happen if I didn’t use WordPress for 20 years? ;-)
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Julie Walraven says
Hi Kim, you are inspiring. We bought a piano in 1980 right before we were married. It’s a player piano and the plan was to restore it. But we never did.
We didn’t want to move it, so we left it in my aunt’s garage. She told us when we moved into this house and built the back deck that she didn’t want to keep it another 15 years.
I did have lessons when I was young. We moved the piano here in 1995 and only a few people have played it. Mike plays it when he stops by and though it needs tuning, having a professional musician play his jazzy tunes is a joy. Teddy used to play it with his nose… but I have only rarely played it. I think I shall add that to my list and see what I can do.
If you have motivated me properly, perhaps someday I will get someone to tune it too… :-)
Do create the follow-up post…
Kim Woodbridge says
Hi Julie,
I would prefer to have a regular piano but the plus side is it won’t have to be tuned ;-) I remember when the piano tuning guy would come when I was a kid and we get as far away as possible. What a job!
I don’t know how much of an inspiration I am – I’ve been thinking about this for a long time when I could have been practicing but Alex wanting to learn finally got me motivated – it can take be forever to make a decision.
My brother has a piano that I’ll hopefully have someday. It belonged to out great-uncle who played the piano during silent movies way back. He played wonderfully.
jasmine says
Wonderful post. I love music, and play many instruments. One thing I’ve learned about the piano is that ANY song can be played on the piano. It’s the only instrument (common) that can reach every note of a symphony and so it can be used as a foundation for children to better implement the grand staff, and grand scheme of things regarding music as a whole. Piano IS the best instrument IMO. Thank you for having this subject matter to be read, I enjoyed it!
Kim Woodbridge says
Hi Jasmine – It’s the only instrument I know how to play and is my favorite to listen to. I tried learning the guitar but didn’t get very far with it.
Lynda says
Kim,
Congrats on the piano! I took lessons briefly as a child and loved it. However I found it difficult to improve as we didn’t actually own a piano and instead I could only really practice at the teacher’s house. I would love to get back into playing myself. Good for you :)
Kim Woodbridge says
Hi Lynda – That would be really hard if you didn’t have one of your own. The college in the town where I grew up had practice rooms that we could get permission to use – too bad you didn’t have something like that. After I was 16 we didn’t have a piano anymore – that isn’t why I stopped taking lessons but my decision to stop happened around the same time.
Luke says
It it such a marvelous instrument ! I had a chance of learning to play it from 8 to 13 year of my life. In that period we lived with my grandpa and he was a great piano player . I wish i could turn back in time to take the opportunity again… We moved out and somehow i sailed away from playing a piano. I listen it very often though.
Kim Woodbridge says
Hi Luke – That’s great. You should look into playing again like I did. The digital piano wasn’t too expensive and I’m already so glad I saved up for it.
Davina Haisell says
I took piano lessons for two years when I was a wee one. Even played in a recital. I can attest to loosing time, Kim. When you are enjoying something like this it is easy to lose yourself in it. I wish I had continued, but I was so shy I dropped it. I think it’s great that you have done this for your kid :)
Kim Woodbridge says
Hi Davina – I HATED the recitals. I was so shy when I was a kid – it was torture. I didn’t feel that shy with my teachers though – the first was really nice, the second was just plain odd, and the third was in outer space ;-) I don’t think I would mind the recitals as much now but it is the perfect way to make tons of mistakes in a piece that you know perfectly.
Jean says
Awww thats really neat about your daughter! Thats really amazing that she is letting her inner creativity flow out! I hope she continues with that. And yes you should definitely post a video!!!!
-Jean
Kim Woodbridge says
Thanks! I’m still looking into getting her formal lessons but she does make up the funniest songs …
Rick says
I remember when I was a kid, I got one of those Casio keyboards and I really wanted to learn to play some of my favorite tunes, but just could not do it. And here comes my uncle who has this uncanny ability to pick up anything within a few minutes, just starts jamming out famous tunes within a few minutes of practice. He also did the same with the harmonica a while before that. Anyway, I kept on trying for many months, even taking lessons, but never could get anywhere with it and gave up. Hope you fare better than me!
Kim Woodbridge says
I can’t just start playing like your uncle – I have to pick a song and practice and practice and practice. So far, my daughter isn’t that interested in studying piano formally but spends her time making up songs – and they aren’t that bad.